A client recently came into my office with a stack of papers downloaded from the internet. It was a revocable living trust, dutifully signed and notarized. “I’m all set, right?” he asked. He believed he had constructed a fortress to protect his family’s assets. In reality, what he had was a foundational tool—useful for its specific purpose, but far from the absolute shield he imagined.
This is a conversation I have frequently. The question isn’t “what trust do we recommend?” as if there’s a single, off-the-shelf answer. The proper question is, “What are you trying to accomplish?” A trust is a vehicle, not a destination. Its structure must be deliberately chosen to match the family’s goals, asset profile, and vision for their legacy. For some, the primary goal is simply to avoid the delays and public nature of Surrogate’s Court. For others, it’s about protecting assets from future creditors, minimizing estate taxes, or providing for a loved one with special needs.
Each of these objectives requires a different approach and a different type of trust. Stewardship.
The Revocable Trust: The Cornerstone of Many Plans
For many New York families, the revocable living trust is the right starting point. I often refer to it as the cornerstone of a plan. Its primary functions are direct and powerful: probate avoidance and incapacity planning.
When you die with assets titled only in your name, your will must be validated by the Surrogate’s Court in a process called probate. This process can be time-consuming and is a matter of public record. By transferring assets like your home or investment accounts into a revocable trust during your lifetime, you technically no longer own them—the trust does. You control the trust as the trustee, so nothing changes in your day-to-day life. But upon your death, there is no need for probate for those assets. Your chosen successor trustee can step in and manage or distribute them according to your instructions, privately and efficiently.
Similarly, if you become incapacitated, your successor trustee can manage the trust’s assets for your benefit. This can avoid a costly and intrusive court proceeding where a judge would have to appoint a conservator to manage your affairs. The revocable trust provides a clear contingency plan.
However, you must understand what this trust cannot do. Because you retain the power to revoke or amend it at any time, the law treats its assets as your own for other purposes. This means a revocable trust offers no protection from creditors, lawsuits, or estate taxes. For those objectives, we must look to different structures.
Irrevocable Trusts: For Protection and Preservation
When a client’s goals go beyond probate avoidance, we begin the conversation about irrevocable trusts. The name itself signals the trade-off: to gain significant asset protection and tax advantages, you must give up control. Once you place assets into a properly structured irrevocable trust, you generally cannot take them back. This is a serious step, one that requires careful consideration.
Why would anyone do this? There are several compelling reasons.
- Asset Protection: For executives, physicians, or business owners in Manhattan, the risk of a future lawsuit is real. By transferring assets to an irrevocable trust well in advance of any claim, those assets may be shielded from the reach of future creditors. The transfer must be made when skies are clear; you cannot move assets into a trust to defraud a known creditor.
- Estate Tax Minimization: While the federal estate tax exemption is currently high, the New York State exemption is significantly lower—$6.94 million as of 2024. For high-net-worth individuals, an irrevocable trust can be used to move assets out of their taxable estate. A common vehicle for this is an Irrevocable Life Insurance Trust (ILIT), which holds a life insurance policy and ensures the death benefit passes to beneficiaries free of estate tax.
- Long-Term Care Planning: For some families, preserving assets from the staggering cost of long-term care is a priority. Medicaid has a five-year “look-back” period for asset transfers. Moving assets into a specifically designed irrevocable Medicaid Asset Protection Trust can start that clock, helping to protect a lifetime of savings.
These are not simple documents. They are highly technical instruments designed for specific, intentional outcomes. The terms of an irrevocable trust are a testament to a family’s foresight and commitment to generational planning.
The Trustee’s Burden: A Fiduciary Duty
Whether a trust is revocable or irrevocable, its success hinges on the person or institution you name to manage it: the trustee. This is not an honorary title. It is a demanding role with significant legal responsibilities—a fiduciary duty of the highest order.
Your trustee is legally obligated to act in the best interests of the beneficiaries. In New York, their conduct is governed by laws like the Prudent Investor Act, codified in EPTL § 11-2.3. This statute requires a trustee to exercise reasonable care, skill, and caution when managing trust assets. They cannot just put the money under a mattress or gamble it on speculative investments. They must create a diversified, balanced portfolio appropriate for the trust’s purpose and the beneficiaries’ needs.
Choosing a trustee is one of the most critical decisions in the entire process. Will it be a family member? A trusted friend? A corporate trustee like a bank’s trust department? Each has its merits and drawbacks. A family member knows your values but may lack financial sophistication or the emotional fortitude to say “no” to a beneficiary. A corporate trustee is impartial and professional but comes with fees and lacks a personal connection. Sometimes, a combination of the two—a co-trustee arrangement—can provide the right balance of personal insight and professional management.
The right trust is not just a document; it’s a strategy. It reflects a deep understanding of your family, your assets, and your ultimate goals. The structure we design is built to serve that strategy, not the other way around.
If you have an existing will or trust, it deserves a periodic review. My firm analyzes existing plans to identify gaps between the legal text and a family’s long-term objectives. To schedule a review of your documents, contact my office.



