A family in Brooklyn finds their father’s will tucked away in a safe deposit box. Relief washes over them. They believe this document is the final word, a clear map that lets them bypass any legal formalities and distribute his assets as he wished. Then, a few weeks later, a formal notice—a citation—arrives from the Kings County Surrogate’s Court. The family is confused. They have the will, so why is the court involved? This is one of the most common misunderstandings I see in my practice.
A Last Will and Testament is not a magical key that unlocks an estate. In New York, it is an instruction manual submitted to a judge. The will nominates an executor, but it does not appoint them. It expresses your wishes, but it does not, by itself, have the power to enforce them. That power is granted by the court through a process called probate.
What Probate Actually Is
Probate is the legal process where the Surrogate’s Court validates your will, officially appoints your chosen executor, and oversees the administration of your estate. It’s a public, and often lengthy, proceeding designed to ensure three things:
- The will is authentic and was created without duress or improper influence.
- All your creditors are properly notified and paid from the estate’s assets.
- The remaining assets are distributed correctly to the beneficiaries you named.
Your will is the central document in this process. It tells the court who you want to be in charge—your executor—and where you want your property to go. Without a will, the court still supervises the process, known as an administration, but state law, not your personal wishes, dictates who gets your assets. Having a will gives you a voice in the proceedings, but it doesn’t let you skip them.
Why a Will Can Be Challenged
The probate process exists because a will is just a piece of paper until a judge declares it legally valid. During this period, interested parties—typically family members who feel they were unfairly excluded or treated—have an opportunity to object. This is known as a will contest.
A challenge is not about whether the will’s terms are “fair.” The court’s concern is whether the will is legally sound. In our firm, we’ve seen contests arise from many angles, but most fall into a few categories:
- Improper Execution: New York has very specific rules for how a will must be signed and witnessed. Under Estates, Powers and Trusts Law (EPTL) § 3-2.1, the will must be signed at the end by the testator in the presence of two witnesses, who must also sign their names. A mistake here—like a witness not being present for the signature—can invalidate the entire document.
- Lack of Capacity: The challenger argues that the person making the will (the testator) did not have the mental capacity to understand what they were signing.
- Undue Influence: This claim asserts that a person in a position of trust manipulated the testator into creating a will that benefits the influencer.
A professionally drafted and supervised will-signing ceremony is the strongest defense against these challenges. It creates a record of a deliberate, intentional act, making it far more difficult for someone to argue that the document doesn’t reflect your true wishes. Stewardship.
The Executor: Your Fiduciary and Steward
Perhaps the most critical function of your will is to nominate an executor. This is the person or institution you trust to manage your estate. Once the court approves your will and formally appoints them, they become a fiduciary, with a legal duty to act in the best interests of the estate and its beneficiaries.
This is not a simple honorary title. The executor’s job is demanding. They are responsible for:
- Identifying and gathering all estate assets, from bank accounts to real estate.
- Paying the decedent’s final bills and any outstanding debts.
- Filing the decedent’s final income taxes and any required estate tax returns.
- Managing and protecting assets during the probate process.
- Providing a formal accounting to the beneficiaries and the court.
- Distributing the remaining property according to the will’s instructions.
Choosing your executor is a decision about who you trust to be the custodian of your legacy. It requires prudence. Is your chosen person organized, responsible, and impartial? A poorly chosen executor can lead to family conflict and mismanagement, even with the clearest of wills.
A will is the cornerstone of many estate plans, but it is not the entire structure. It is a vital tool that works in concert with the Surrogate’s Court to ensure your wishes are heard. The goal is not to avoid the process, but to make it as smooth and predictable as possible for the people you leave behind.
If you have an existing will, a prudent first step is to review your choice of executor and successor executor. Consider if they are still the right people for the job. To discuss the specific powers and duties your will grants to your fiduciaries, schedule a meeting with our office to analyze the document’s provisions.





