A client once came to my office with a simple goal. He and his wife had spent 30 years in their Brooklyn brownstone, and they wanted to ensure it passed directly to their two children, avoiding the nine-month grind of Surrogate’s Court. They had heard a trust was the answer. They were partly right, but the most important questions hadn’t been asked yet: What kind of trust? And for what specific purpose?
Transferring a home into a trust is a common objective in my practice. For many families, their home is not just their largest asset; it is the heart of their legacy. The decision to place it in a trust is a profound act of stewardship. But it is not a one-size-fits-all maneuver. The path you choose—specifically, between a revocable and an irrevocable trust—has consequences that will last for generations.
Control vs. Protection: The Central Question
When clients want to put their home in a trust, our first discussion is about the fundamental tradeoff between flexibility and protection. This is the difference between a revocable trust and an irrevocable trust.
A revocable trust offers complete control. You create it, you transfer your house into it, and you act as the trustee. You can amend the trust, change beneficiaries, or even dissolve it and take the house back in your own name. For this reason, it is an excellent tool for avoiding probate. Upon your death, the successor trustee you named takes over and distributes the property according to your instructions, bypassing Surrogate’s Court entirely. It is clean and private.
Because you retain control, however, the law views the assets in a revocable trust as yours. This means the house is not protected from creditors, lawsuits, or the high costs of long-term care. It offers convenience, but not a shield.
An irrevocable trust is a different commitment. Once you transfer your home into an irrevocable trust, you cannot easily undo it. You give up direct control. You appoint an independent trustee—a trusted family member, a friend, or a professional fiduciary—who manages the asset according to the rules you established. Why give up control? For protection.
Assets held in a properly structured irrevocable trust are no longer legally yours. They are generally shielded from your personal creditors. More significantly for many of our clients, this is a cornerstone of long-term care planning. Moving the asset out of your name starts the clock on the Medicaid look-back period, preserving the family home from being consumed by future nursing home costs.
The Mechanics of the Transfer
Placing your home in a trust requires more than signing a document. The trust must be “funded”—the legal term for transferring ownership of the asset to the trust. I have seen many do-it-yourself plans fail at this step.
Funding the trust involves preparing and recording a new deed. This deed retitles the property from your individual name (e.g., “Jane Smith”) to your name as trustee of the trust (e.g., “Jane Smith, as Trustee of the Jane Smith Revocable Trust”). This new deed must be correctly prepared, signed, notarized, and recorded with the county clerk where the property is located. Failing to properly record the conveyance, as required by New York Real Property Law, can undermine the entire structure.
An unfunded trust is an empty vessel. The house remains in your name, and upon your death, it will go through probate—the very outcome you were trying to avoid.
Beyond the Legal Structure: A Family Conversation
A trust is also a document that governs family dynamics. You must be deliberate about the instructions you leave for your trustee and beneficiaries. Do you want the house sold immediately and the proceeds divided? Or do you want to give your children the right to live in it for a period of time?
What if one child wants to sell, but the other wants to keep the home? A well-drafted trust anticipates these conflicts and provides a clear roadmap. You can include provisions for buyouts, rights of first refusal, or a requirement for a majority vote among beneficiaries to sell the property. These are not just legal clauses—they are contingency plans for your family’s future harmony.
Choosing a trustee is perhaps the most important decision you will make. This person or institution has a fiduciary duty to act in the best interests of the beneficiaries and follow your instructions to the letter. It requires diligence, impartiality, and financial sense. The role is one of immense responsibility, not an honorary title.
Deciding whether a trust is the right vehicle for your home is the first step. The next is determining which structure aligns with your family’s specific needs for control, protection, and legacy. It requires a thoughtful assessment of your assets, your health, and your ultimate goals for the people you care about most.
If you are considering how to transfer your home, start by defining your primary goal for the property. With that clarity, we can schedule a consultation to determine if a trust is the most prudent path for your legacy.


