A client once came to my Manhattan office having named his 14-year-old son as the direct beneficiary of a sizable investment account. He believed he had done the right thing—a simple, direct transfer to secure his son’s future. In reality, he had just invited the New York Surrogate’s Court to take control of that inheritance until his son turned 18, a process that is public, expensive, and often contrary to a parent’s wishes.
This is one of the most common and heartfelt mistakes I see in my practice. The intention is pure: to provide for a child. The legal result is a tangle of court proceedings, appointed guardians, and a loss of parental control over how and when those assets are used. In New York, a minor cannot legally own or manage significant property. Simply naming them in a will or on a beneficiary form does not change that fact.
The Problem with Direct Gifting to a Minor
When an asset passes directly to a minor, the law intervenes to protect the child’s interest. While well-intentioned, the mechanism is clumsy and restrictive. A child under 18 lacks the legal capacity to manage funds, so the court must appoint a guardian of the property. This financial guardian—accountable only to the court—is distinct from the personal guardian who would care for the child.
This court-supervised guardianship is governed by Article 17 of the Surrogate’s Court Procedure Act (SCPA). Under this statute, the appointed guardian must post a bond, file annual accountings with the court, and seek court permission for nearly every expenditure. Every dollar spent on the child’s behalf—for school, summer camp, or even medical care—must be justified to a judge. It is a rigid, bureaucratic process that can drain the inheritance through legal fees and administrative costs.
Worse, this arrangement ends abruptly when the child turns 18. On their eighteenth birthday, whatever remains of the inheritance is turned over to them in a lump sum, with no guidance or restrictions. An 18-year-old, regardless of maturity, suddenly has complete control over what might be a life-altering amount of money. Few parents I know would consider this the ideal outcome.
UTMA Accounts: A Step Better, But Still Flawed
Another option is an account under the New York Uniform Transfers to Minors Act (UTMA). This approach is simpler than a court-supervised guardianship. You name an adult custodian—a trusted sibling or friend—who manages the funds for the child’s benefit without ongoing court intervention.
This structure avoids the public filings and judicial oversight of a formal guardianship. The custodian has a fiduciary duty to manage the assets prudently. The significant limitation of an UTMA, however, is its automatic termination. In New York, the assets must be turned over to the child when they reach age 21.
While 21 is better than 18, it is still a young age to receive a substantial inheritance. The funds are transferred without condition. There is no way to protect the assets from a youthful mistake, a creditor, or a future divorce. It is a one-size-fits-all approach that lacks the nuance required for true legacy stewardship.
The Prudent Path: Using a Trust for Generational Stewardship
For parents who want to provide for their children with intention and foresight, the trust is the superior instrument. A trust is a private legal agreement that allows you to leave assets for your children’s benefit but on your own terms. It is the framework for deliberate, generational planning.
Instead of naming your child as a beneficiary, you name the trust as the beneficiary. You also name a trustee—a person or institution you select—to manage the assets according to the instructions you leave in the trust document. This trustee has a legal fiduciary duty to follow your wishes.
This structure gives you complete control, even after you are gone. Within the trust, you specify:
- Who manages the money. You choose the trustee, not a court. You can also name a successor trustee as a contingency.
- How the money is spent. You can direct the trustee to use the funds for specific purposes, such as education, health care, or the down payment on a first home.
- When the child receives control. You can stagger distributions over time. For example, a child might receive one-third of the principal at age 25, another third at 30, and the remainder at 35. This gives them time to mature financially.
A trust keeps the inheritance out of the Surrogate’s Court. It is private, flexible, and protects the assets from a beneficiary’s potential creditors or a failed marriage. It transforms an inheritance from a simple lump-sum payment into a protected legacy designed to support your child over the long term.
Stewardship. That is the goal. It is not just about transferring wealth; it is about transferring it wisely, with protections in place that reflect a lifetime of care. A simple beneficiary designation cannot accomplish this. A trust can.
If you have named a minor as a direct beneficiary on a life insurance policy, retirement account, or in your will, that designation may not work as you expect. The prudent next step is a beneficiary designation review. My firm can audit these forms alongside your existing estate documents to ensure your plan aligns with your intentions for your family’s future.




