A few months ago, a client came into my Manhattan office with a stack of papers and a deep sense of frustration. His father had passed away, leaving a substantial trust for his benefit. The trustee, a distant cousin, was providing vague answers about the trust’s investments and had denied a reasonable request for a distribution. My client’s question was simple: “He’s the trustee, but it’s my inheritance. Who actually has more power here?”
This question gets to the heart of trust administration. The relationship between a trustee and a beneficiary is not about one person holding all the authority. It is a system of checks and balances designed to protect the assets and honor the intentions of the person who created the trust—the grantor.
The Trustee: A Fiduciary with a Heavy Burden
On paper, the trustee holds the cards. They have legal title to the trust assets. They can buy, sell, and manage investments. They write the checks. This control is intentional—a trust needs a single, responsible party to execute its terms. Without this authority, the trust would be unmanageable.
This power is not absolute. It is constrained by one of the most significant obligations in law: a fiduciary duty. A trustee is a fiduciary, meaning they must act with the highest degree of loyalty and care, placing the interests of the beneficiaries above their own. Always. This isn’t a suggestion—it’s a legal requirement.
This duty of stewardship means the trustee must:
- Follow the terms of the trust document precisely.
- Manage trust assets prudently, avoiding overly risky or self-serving investments.
- Keep detailed and accurate records of all transactions.
- Communicate with the beneficiaries and keep them reasonably informed.
A trustee who treats the trust assets as a personal fund or who acts negligently is breaching this duty. That is where the beneficiary’s power comes into play.
The Beneficiary: The Right to Enforce and Account
A beneficiary cannot direct the day-to-day management of trust assets. You cannot, for example, force a trustee to sell a specific stock or purchase a piece of real estate. Your power is different, but equally important: the power of enforcement.
The primary tool for a beneficiary is the right to information and an accounting. You have the right to know what is happening with your inheritance. In New York, this is not a courtesy—it’s codified in the law. If a trustee is not forthcoming, a beneficiary can petition the Surrogate’s Court to compel a formal accounting under Article 22 of the Surrogate’s Court Procedure Act (SCPA).
An accounting is a detailed report of every dollar that has come into and gone out of the trust. It is the ultimate tool for transparency. If that accounting reveals mismanagement, self-dealing, or any other breach of fiduciary duty, a beneficiary has the right to ask the court to intervene. The court can order the trustee to repay losses, remove the trustee, and appoint a successor to take their place.
While the trustee has the steering wheel, the beneficiary has the legal right to demand a look at the map and sue if the driver goes off course.
When Discretion Creates Conflict
The most common friction arises when a trust gives the trustee “discretion” to make distributions. Often, a trust allows distributions for a beneficiary’s “health, education, maintenance, and support.” What one person considers necessary for “support,” another might see as extravagant.
A trustee might deny a beneficiary’s request for funds to start a business, believing it’s not a prudent use of trust assets. The beneficiary might see it as a critical investment in their future. This is a classic power struggle.
Here again, the trustee’s power is limited. A trustee’s discretion must be exercised in good faith and reasonably, consistent with the grantor’s intent. A court can review a trustee’s decision to determine if there has been an abuse of that discretion. The trustee must be able to justify their decisions as prudent and in line with their fiduciary obligations. They cannot say “no” out of personal dislike or an arbitrary whim.
Ultimately, the power dynamic is a deliberate balance. The trustee has active, managerial power. The beneficiary has passive, but potent, enforcement power. Each role holds the other in check, ensuring the legacy left by the grantor is managed with integrity and purpose.
If you are a beneficiary concerned about the administration of your trust or a trustee unclear on the scope of your duties, the trust document is your primary guide. The next step is a careful review of its specific terms. My firm schedules consultations to analyze these documents and clarify the precise powers and responsibilities they establish for everyone involved.




