When a parent dies owning a home in Brooklyn, the deed doesn’t just change hands. It freezes. The family often assumes they can sell the property or that a sibling can move in, but the law sees it differently. If that deed lists only the deceased as the owner, the property is now under the jurisdiction of the New York Surrogate’s Court. This begins a public, court-supervised process called probate—a process that was often entirely avoidable.
The Default Path: Surrogate’s Court
For many New York families, their first interaction with estate law is a petition to the court. When real estate is titled solely in a decedent’s name, it becomes a probate asset. This means it cannot be sold, refinanced, or retitled without the court’s authority. The will, if one exists, must be proven valid, and the court must formally appoint an executor to act on behalf of the estate.
The executor is a fiduciary—a legal status that imposes a strict duty to act in the best interests of the estate and its beneficiaries. Their responsibilities include inventorying all assets, having the home appraised, paying the decedent’s final debts, and ultimately distributing the remaining assets according to the will. For real estate, this means securing a court order, often called Letters Testamentary, that grants the executor the legal power to sign a new deed and transfer the property.
This process is not quick, and it is not private. Court filings are public record. Creditors are given a chance to make claims against the estate. The procedure is measured in months, often a year or more if disputes arise. During this time, the family waits, and the property’s future remains in the hands of the court.
When There Is No Will: The State’s Plan
The situation is more complicated when a person dies without a will, a condition known as dying “intestate.” In these cases, there is no executor to nominate and no instructions to follow. Instead, the law provides a rigid formula for who inherits the property. This is not a suggestion; it is a mandate dictated by New York Estates, Powers and Trusts Law (EPTL) § 4-1.1.
The statute sets a clear hierarchy. If the decedent had a spouse and children, the spouse inherits the first $50,000 of the estate plus half of the remainder, with the children inheriting the rest. If there is no spouse but there are children, they inherit everything equally. The law continues down the family tree to parents, then siblings, and so on. A court-appointed administrator, who has the same fiduciary duties as an executor, must follow this formula precisely.
The state’s plan rarely matches a person’s true intentions. It makes no exceptions for a child who was the primary caregiver, a partner to whom the decedent was not married, or a close friend who was like family. The law is impersonal. Without a will, you are leaving the distribution of your most significant asset to a generic statute written by lawmakers in Albany.
Deliberate Planning for a Private Transfer
Probate is the default, but it does not have to be the outcome. With intentional planning, property can be transferred privately, efficiently, and according to your exact wishes. This is an act of stewardship over your legacy.
The most common tool for this is the revocable living trust. When you create a trust, you transfer the title of your property from your individual name to the name of the trust. You still control the property completely as the trustee during your lifetime. Upon your death, a successor trustee you designated steps in to manage the trust’s assets. Because the trust—not you—owns the property, there is nothing to probate. The successor trustee can transfer the property to your named beneficiaries according to the instructions in the trust document, entirely outside the supervision of the Surrogate’s Court.
Another method is holding property in joint tenancy with rights of survivorship. When one owner dies, their share automatically passes to the surviving joint owner. This also avoids probate. However, this approach has significant drawbacks. Adding a joint owner to your deed is an irrevocable gift and can expose the property to the other owner’s debts, liabilities, or divorce proceedings. It is a less flexible tool and requires careful consideration.
Making a deliberate choice about how your property is titled is the foundation of a sound estate plan. It ensures the people you choose are the ones who benefit, without the cost, delay, and public scrutiny of a court proceeding.
The path your property takes after your death is determined by the words on the deed today. The first step is often the simplest: locate and review the current deed for any real property you own. If you are responsible for an estate or are planning your own, the next step is a review of these key documents. My office can schedule a session to map out the legal path forward.





