A Will Guarantees a Court Date. Is That What You Intend?
A family from Brooklyn came to my office last year. Their father had passed away, leaving behind a home, some investments, and a perfectly clear will. He named his children as beneficiaries and his eldest son as executor. They thought they had everything they needed. Yet they found themselves spending the next ten months entangled with the Kings County Surrogate’s Court.
Why? Because a will—even a well-drafted one—is not a private instruction manual for your family. It is a letter of instruction to a judge. Its very existence guarantees that your estate will go through probate, the court-supervised process of validating the will, paying debts, and distributing assets. It is a public, often lengthy, and sometimes costly process.
For many New Yorkers, this is a surprise. The common understanding is that a will is the cornerstone of an estate plan. And it is. But it is not the entire structure. Understanding its function, and its limitations, is the first step in creating a truly deliberate legacy plan.
The Last Will and Testament: A Public Directive
A will is an essential legal document. I would never advise a client with children not to have one. Its most critical—and unique—function is the ability to name a guardian for your minor children. A trust cannot do this. A will is your voice, legally recognized, stating who you entrust with the care of your children if you are no longer there.
The will also directs the disposition of any property held in your individual name at the time of your death. To be valid in New York, a will must comply with the strict execution requirements of Estates, Powers and Trusts Law (EPTL) § 3-2.1. The statute requires the testator to sign the will at its end, and at least two witnesses must also sign their names. Failure to follow these formalities can be grounds for a will contest, pulling a family into years of litigation.
But the will’s public nature and its connection to the Surrogate’s Court are its defining characteristics. Upon your passing, the will is filed with the court, and it becomes a public record. The entire process is supervised by a judge. This supervision can be a safeguard in contentious family situations, but for most, it is an administrative burden they would prefer to spare their loved ones.
The Trust: A Private Vessel for Your Assets
If a will is a letter to a judge, a trust is a private contract for managing your assets. Specifically, a revocable living trust is the tool we most often use to hold a client’s major assets—real estate, investment accounts, and business interests.
Here’s how it works. You, the grantor, create the trust. You name a trustee to manage the assets inside it. During your lifetime, you are your own trustee, retaining full control. You can buy, sell, and manage the assets just as you did before. You also name a successor trustee—a person or institution you trust—to take over when you are no longer able to act.
The key is this: assets properly titled in the name of the trust are not part of your probate estate. They are governed by the private terms of the trust document. Upon your passing, your successor trustee steps in and administers the assets according to your instructions, without any court intervention. The process is private, efficient, and allows for far more nuanced control over how and when your beneficiaries receive their inheritance.
This is stewardship. It allows you to protect a beneficiary from their own financial inexperience, shield their inheritance from creditors or a future divorce, or manage assets for a loved one with special needs. A will simply cannot achieve this level of generational planning.
Why You Likely Need Both
The conversation should not be “will versus trust.” For most of the families and executives I represent, the prudent strategy involves both instruments working in concert. We create a revocable living trust to serve as the primary vehicle for the estate plan, and we retitle the significant assets into it.
Then, we draft what is known as a “pour-over” will. This is a special type of will with one simple, critical job: to act as a safety net. It states that any asset inadvertently left out of the trust—a forgotten bank account, a car purchased at the last minute—should be “poured over” into the trust upon your death. That asset will have to go through probate, but it will ultimately be governed by the sophisticated distribution terms you established in your trust.
This dual structure provides both the probate avoidance and privacy of the trust and the essential guardianship-naming function of the will. It is an intentional design, built to handle the contingencies of life and carry out your wishes with dignity and efficiency.
If your current plan consists only of a will, your family is likely headed for Surrogate’s Court. To understand the specific probate exposure your estate might face, I invite you to schedule a confidential review of your existing documents with our firm. We can identify the gaps and discuss the structure that best protects your legacy.




