A client recently came into my Manhattan office with a folder of notes from a financial celebrity’s TV show. At the top of the page, underlined twice, were the words “REVOCABLE LIVING TRUST.” She wanted to know if this was truly the “must have” document Suze Orman claims it is. For many families I work with, the answer is yes—and the reason often comes down to avoiding one specific place: New York’s Surrogate’s Court.
A will is a powerful document, but it’s essentially a set of instructions for a judge. It has no authority until the person who signed it has passed away, and the will is then admitted to probate. This court process is public, can be expensive, and—most importantly for grieving families—it takes time. A simple probate can take months; a contested one can take years. A revocable living trust, on the other hand, is a private contract that allows your assets to be managed and distributed without court intervention.
The Core of the Advice: Control and Continuity
When financial personalities like Suze Orman advocate for a revocable living trust, they are talking about one thing: control. A will directs your property after you die. A trust allows you to control your property while you are alive, provides for you if you become incapacitated, and directs your property after you die—all within one document.
Think of a trust as an empty vessel that you create. You are the initial trustee (the manager) and the initial beneficiary. You then retitle your significant assets—your home, brokerage accounts, business interests—into the name of the trust. Nothing changes in your day-to-day life. You still buy, sell, and manage your assets as you always have. The power of the trust is revealed when control needs to pass to someone else.
The probate process for a will is governed by Article 14 of the Surrogate’s Court Procedure Act (SCPA). It involves filing a petition, notifying heirs, appointing an executor, and getting court approval for nearly every step. With a trust, the successor trustee you named—perhaps a responsible child or a corporate fiduciary—simply steps in to manage the assets according to your instructions. No court proceeding is required to begin their authority. For your family, this means continuity, privacy, and significantly less administrative burden.
Beyond Death: Planning for Incapacity
An estate plan focused only on death is incomplete. It fails to answer what happens if you become unable to make decisions for yourself. A will does nothing for you while you are alive. If you become incapacitated with only a will, your family may have to petition a court to appoint a guardian to manage your finances. This is another public, costly, and emotionally draining court process.
A revocable living trust directly addresses this risk. Your trust document outlines exactly who takes over as trustee if you are medically certified as unable to manage your affairs. That person—your chosen steward—gains immediate authority to pay your bills, manage your investments, and ensure your financial life continues seamlessly. You, not a judge, decide who is in charge. This is a profound act of foresight that protects not only your assets but also your dignity and your family’s stability.
When a Revocable Trust Is Only the Beginning
Suze Orman’s advice is geared toward a broad audience, and for many, a revocable living trust is the right centerpiece for their estate plan. For high-net-worth individuals, families with complex assets, or those with specific legacy goals, it is often just the starting point. Stewardship can demand more specialized tools.
A revocable trust does not, by itself, protect your assets from creditors or reduce estate taxes. Because you retain full control, the law considers the assets to be yours. For asset protection or tax mitigation, we must look to irrevocable trusts.
An irrevocable trust involves permanently transferring assets out of your name and into the trust. You give up control, but in exchange, you can achieve goals a revocable trust cannot. These instruments can move assets outside of your taxable estate, protect property from future lawsuits, or provide for a beneficiary with special needs without disrupting their eligibility for government benefits. These are deliberate strategies that require a careful analysis of a family’s entire financial and personal picture.
While the revocable living trust is an essential foundation, it is not a complete plan for everyone. The key is to match the legal structure to the family’s specific circumstances and long-term objectives.
If you are considering how a trust could serve your family, the first step is a clear inventory of what you own and who you want to protect. My firm offers a confidential session to review this inventory and map out the structure that aligns with your specific legacy goals.




