An executor for a Queens estate I recently administered found a stack of mail three feet high in the decedent’s apartment. Tucked inside a catalog was a final notice from a creditor—a debt the family knew nothing about. Had she simply discarded the pile as junk mail, the estate could have faced a lawsuit, and she, as the executor, could have been held personally liable.
When a person passes away, their mail does not stop. The flow of letters, bills, statements, and solicitations continues, but it is no longer just paper. It becomes a roadmap to the deceased’s financial life and a critical component of estate administration. Managing this mail is not an administrative chore; it is a fundamental part of an executor’s or administrator’s legal responsibility. It is an act of stewardship.
At our firm, we guide fiduciaries through this process, ensuring they fulfill their duties methodically and without exposing themselves to unnecessary risk. The contents of a mailbox can reveal unknown bank accounts, life insurance policies, outstanding loans, or pending tax issues—all of which must be addressed to properly settle an estate.
Who Has the Authority to Manage a Decedent’s Mail?
The United States Postal Service has strict rules about who can control someone else’s mail. You cannot simply walk into a post office and request to forward mail for a deceased relative, even with a death certificate in hand. The legal authority to take control of a decedent’s mail is granted by one place only: the New York Surrogate’s Court.
This authority is formally established when the court issues either:
- Letters Testamentary: Granted to the executor named in a valid will after it has been admitted to probate.
- Letters of Administration: Granted to an administrator appointed by the court when someone dies without a will (intestate).
These court-issued documents are the official proof that you are the fiduciary of the estate. The person named in those Letters is the only one the USPS will recognize as having the right to file a change of address. This is not just a USPS policy; it is rooted in New York law. The powers of a fiduciary, including the duty to collect the decedent’s assets, are outlined in our state’s Surrogate’s Court Procedure Act (SCPA). For instance, SCPA Article 7 broadly defines the responsibilities fiduciaries have to the estates they manage.
Attempting to manage mail without this legal standing creates complications. A well-meaning family member might inadvertently discard a crucial notice or open mail that reveals private information, creating potential legal friction among beneficiaries.
The Practical Process of Forwarding Mail for an Estate
Once you have the Letters Testamentary or Letters of Administration, redirecting the mail is straightforward. The executor or administrator must go in person to a post office with several key documents:
- The original, court-certified Letters Testamentary or Letters of Administration. Copies are not accepted.
- A certified copy of the death certificate.
- Government-issued photo identification for the executor or administrator.
- A completed PS Form 3575, the official Change of Address form.
You will be forwarding the mail from the decedent’s last address to your own address or to an address established for estate business. I often advise executors to consider a P.O. Box for this purpose. It keeps estate correspondence separate from personal mail, creating a clearer administrative record and simplifying the accounting process later on.
The mail forwarding order lasts for one year. While it can be extended, a year is usually sufficient for an executor to identify all assets, notify creditors, and handle the initial phase of administration. During this period, you must diligently open, sort, and act on every piece of relevant mail.
What You Are Looking For
As you review the forwarded mail, you are conducting a form of financial discovery. You are looking for documents that help you build a complete picture of the estate. This includes:
- Bank and brokerage statements: To identify and secure financial accounts.
- Utility bills, credit card statements, and loan notices: To identify the decedent’s debts, which must be paid from the estate.
- Insurance policies: Life insurance, homeowner’s policies, or annuity contracts that may represent assets.
- Tax documents: Such as 1099s or K-1s, which are essential for filing the decedent’s final income tax returns and any necessary estate tax returns.
- Deeds or property tax bills: Evidence of real estate ownership.
Each piece of mail is a clue. Ignoring it is like ignoring a map to a destination you are legally required to reach. This diligence is the essence of your fiduciary duty—the duty to act in the best interests of the estate and its beneficiaries.
If you have been appointed to administer an estate in New York and are preparing to take on these responsibilities, it is prudent to understand the full scope of your duties from the outset. Our firm provides a fiduciary review session to newly appointed executors and administrators to outline their legal obligations, including the immediate steps needed to secure the decedent’s assets and communications.




