A client once came to our Manhattan office with her late husband’s will. They had been married for three decades, building a life and a business together. But the will, written after a late-life argument, left everything to a distant relative. She believed she had no options—that his final written word was absolute. She was mistaken.
I have seen the gap between what people believe is legally binding and what the New York Surrogate’s Court actually upholds. A will is a powerful document, but it is not infallible. It can be challenged, and in certain cases, its terms can be overridden by statute. Understanding your rights is the first step in stewardship—of your own future and of the legacy you helped build.
The Spouse’s Right of Election
The most powerful right many surviving spouses do not know they have is the “spousal right of election.” Our state law codifies this foundational principle in Estates, Powers and Trusts Law (EPTL) § 5-1.1-A. The statute is clear: a person cannot completely disinherit their spouse in New York.
The law provides a safety net. If a will leaves a surviving spouse less than a certain share of the estate—the “elective share”—the spouse has the right to file a formal election with the court to claim that share. The elective share is the greater of $50,000 or one-third of the net estate. This applies not only to assets passing through the will but also to certain “testamentary substitutes” like joint bank accounts or trust assets.
This is not an automatic process. It is a right that must be proactively claimed within a strict timeframe—generally within six months of the court appointing an executor, though extensions are possible. For the client I mentioned, this right was a lifeline. It was not about defying her husband’s wishes but about claiming a share of a legacy she was instrumental in creating. It ensured her financial stability, which is precisely what the law is designed to do.
The Beneficiary’s Right to an Accounting
When a loved one passes away, beneficiaries often find themselves in a painful waiting period. They know they are named in the will or trust, but the executor or trustee is silent. Months, sometimes years, go by with no information. Many beneficiaries assume they have no power and must simply wait.
This is incorrect. As a beneficiary, you have a fundamental right to be kept informed. The person managing the estate—the executor or trustee—is a fiduciary. That is not just a title; it is a legal duty of the highest order. This fiduciary duty requires them to act in the best interests of the beneficiaries, which includes being transparent about the estate’s administration.
If the process is opaque or taking too long, you have the right to demand a formal accounting. This is a detailed report filed with the Surrogate’s Court that lists all the estate’s assets, income, expenses, and proposed distributions. It forces the fiduciary to show their work. If they have mismanaged funds, paid themselves excessive commissions, or delayed unreasonably, the accounting will bring it to light. It is your primary tool for holding a fiduciary accountable.
The Right to Contest a Flawed Will
A final, and often misunderstood, right is the power to challenge the validity of the will itself. A will is only valid if it meets strict legal requirements. If it does not, the court can throw it out, and the estate would then pass to heirs as if no will ever existed.
A will contest is not based on whether the will is “fair.” The court does not weigh the morality of the decedent’s choices. Instead, a challenge must be based on specific legal grounds:
- Lack of Due Execution: The will was not signed and witnessed according to the rigid formalities required by New York law.
- Lack of Testamentary Capacity: The person signing the will did not understand what they were doing, the nature of their assets, or who their natural heirs were.
- Undue Influence or Duress: Someone exerted so much pressure on the decedent that the will reflects the influencer’s wishes, not the decedent’s own.
- Fraud: The decedent was actively deceived into signing the will.
Contesting a will is a significant legal action and should not be undertaken lightly. It requires substantial evidence and testimony, often from medical experts and other witnesses. But it is a crucial protection against elder abuse and manipulation, ensuring that the final document truly represents the intentional and free act of the person who signed it.
These rights are not loopholes. They are pillars of estate law, built to create a predictable and just process for transferring generational wealth and honoring a person’s true legacy. They provide balance—recognizing an individual’s right to direct their assets while also protecting the vulnerable from disinheritance and abuse.
If you are a spouse, beneficiary, or nominated fiduciary facing an uncertain estate administration, a productive first step is to inventory all known assets and document your timeline of events. With that information, an effective legal review of your rights can begin.




