I once worked with a family whose matriarch, a lifelong Manhattan resident, had passed away leaving behind a valuable brownstone, a significant art collection, and a carefully managed stock portfolio. She had a will, which she believed was sufficient. But because she had only a will, every one of those assets was frozen. Her entire estate—its value, its contents, and its intended recipients—became a public record in the New York County Surrogate’s Court for months.
This public, often protracted, process is exactly what many of my clients wish to avoid. The primary instrument we use to achieve that privacy and efficiency is a revocable living trust, known in legal terms as an inter vivos trust. It is a foundational element of deliberate legacy planning.
A Private Contract for Your Legacy
A will is a letter of instruction to a court. It has no power until you die, and then it must be validated by a judge through probate. A living trust, by contrast, is a private contract you create. It is a legal entity that comes into existence the moment you sign the documents—not after you are gone.
You, as the grantor, create the trust and transfer ownership of your assets into it. You typically name yourself as the initial trustee, so you retain full control. You can buy, sell, and manage the assets just as you did before. The trust document also names a successor trustee—a person or institution you have chosen to take over when you no longer can. Your beneficiaries are named, just as in a will, but the instructions for distributing your assets are contained within this private document.
Because the trust owns the assets, there is nothing for the Surrogate’s Court to administer upon your death. The successor trustee simply steps in and follows the private instructions you laid out.
Stewardship.
It is a seamless transition of control, executed outside of the public eye.
Beyond Probate: Planning for Incapacity
While avoiding probate is a significant benefit, it is not the only reason we establish living trusts for our clients. A will is useless if you become incapacitated. It only functions upon your death. But what if you have a stroke or develop dementia and can no longer manage your own financial affairs?
Without a trust, your family’s only option is to petition a court to have you declared incompetent and appoint a guardian. This is a public, expensive, and often painful process that strips you of your autonomy. A living trust provides a far more dignified and effective contingency.
If you become unable to manage your affairs, the successor trustee you already named can step in immediately to pay your bills, manage your investments, and protect your property. They are bound by a strict fiduciary duty to act in your best interest, a standard of care governed by New York law. Specifically, under New York’s Estates, Powers and Trusts Law (EPTL) § 11-2.3—our state’s Prudent Investor Act—a trustee has a duty to invest and manage trust assets with skill and caution.
When a Trust is Not a Cure-All
I believe in being direct about what the law can and cannot do. A standard revocable living trust is not a magic shield. It offers no inherent asset protection from creditors while you are alive, because you retain full control. It also does not, by itself, reduce estate taxes. More complex strategies and different types of trusts are required for those goals.
Furthermore, a trust is only effective if it is properly funded. This is the single most common mistake I see. Creating the trust document is only the first step. You must then actively retitle your assets—real estate deeds, bank accounts, brokerage accounts—into the name of the trust. An empty trust is just a worthless stack of paper. It is an administrative task that requires diligence, but it is the critical step that makes the entire plan work.
The decision to create a trust is a significant one, driven by a desire for privacy, control, and continuity. It is an act of foresight that protects your family from the cost, delay, and public exposure of court proceedings, both in death and during a potential period of incapacity.
If you are concerned about the public nature of probate or want to create a clear plan for managing your assets, the next prudent step is to identify which of your assets are subject to probate. We often begin this process with a confidential review of a client’s asset structure to map out how a trust could provide a more private and efficient transfer of their legacy.




