A family in Brooklyn loses their mother. She leaves behind a beautiful brownstone, the house her children grew up in, and a simple will naming them as her heirs. What she doesn’t leave behind is a trust. For the next nine to twelve months, that brownstone—and the family’s ability to sell it, rent it, or have a child move into it—is tied up in Kings County Surrogate’s Court. This is probate. It’s public, it’s slow, and for most families, it’s entirely avoidable.
I am asked this question constantly: “Should I put my house in a trust?” It’s often the single largest asset a person owns, and the thought of it getting stuck in a court process is unsettling. For many New York families, transferring their home into a trust is a prudent act of stewardship. It’s a deliberate decision to bypass a court system that was never designed for the efficient transfer of family assets.
The Central Purpose: Avoiding Surrogate’s Court
When you own property in your name alone, a will doesn’t magically transfer it to your heirs upon your death. A will is merely a set of instructions for a judge. It must be validated by the Surrogate’s Court in the county where you resided. Only after the court officially appoints an executor can that person get the authority—called Letters Testamentary—to manage your estate and eventually distribute the assets, including your home.
A trust operates differently. When you place your home into a trust, you are retitling the asset. You no longer own it as an individual; the trust owns it. You appoint a trustee—often yourself, to start—to manage the property for the benefit of the beneficiaries you name. When you pass away, the successor trustee you designated simply steps in and follows the instructions laid out in the trust document. No court proceeding is required to grant them this authority. The transfer of control is private, immediate, and free from judicial oversight.
This isn’t about legal maneuvering; it’s about efficiency and privacy. Your family’s affairs remain private, and your chosen steward can act without waiting months for a court’s permission.
Control and Intent: Revocable vs. Irrevocable Trusts
The word “trust” isn’t a one-size-fits-all term. The most critical distinction is whether the trust is revocable or irrevocable. The choice comes down to one thing: control.
A Revocable Living Trust is the most common tool for holding a primary residence. It’s exactly what it sounds like—revocable. During your lifetime, you retain complete control. You can sell the house, refinance the mortgage, or even dissolve the entire trust. You are typically the trustee and the beneficiary. For all practical purposes, nothing changes about how you use and enjoy your home. Its primary function is to avoid probate and provide for a successor trustee to manage your affairs if you become incapacitated.
An Irrevocable Trust is a far more permanent arrangement. Once you transfer your home into an irrevocable trust, you generally cannot take it back. You give up control. Why would anyone do this? The reasons are strategic and usually involve protecting the asset from outside claims. This type of trust is often used in long-term care planning—to start the five-year clock for Medicaid eligibility—or to shield assets from potential creditors. It is a powerful tool, but it requires a serious commitment and a full understanding of the trade-offs.
The Mechanics of the Transfer
Putting your house in a trust is not a matter of just signing the trust document. The asset must be formally funded into the trust. This requires executing and recording a new deed, which transfers the property from your individual name to your name as trustee of the trust. It’s a critical step that is sometimes overlooked.
In New York, the law is clear on this point. A trust only controls the assets it legally owns. The act of “funding” the trust is what gives it power. New York’s Estates, Powers and Trusts Law (EPTL) § 7-1.18 confirms that a lifetime trust is only valid for assets that have actually been transferred to it. Overlooking this step renders the trust useless for that property. It is a procedural detail we handle meticulously to ensure the transfer is legally binding.
Deciding whether a trust is the right vehicle for your home is a significant decision. It hinges on your family structure, your financial picture, and your vision for your legacy. A will directs who gets what. A trust goes further—it designs how and when they get it, without unnecessary court intervention.
The first step isn’t drafting a document; it’s a conversation about your goals. We can begin by scheduling a confidential review of your property deed and discussing how a trust structure might serve your family’s future.


