When a family in Manhattan loses a parent, the discovery of a will is often followed by uncertainty. A daughter or son holds the document—the last formal instruction their loved one left—and asks a simple question with a complicated answer: “What do we do now?” The answer is probate. The will must be brought to the Surrogate’s Court to give it legal effect and appoint an executor to carry out its terms.
For decades, I’ve guided families through this process. This is not merely administrative work. It is the stewardship of a legacy, and it carries significant legal weight. The court’s involvement is not a punishment or a tax—it is a protection, designed to ensure the decedent’s wishes are honored and their affairs properly concluded.
The Petition for Probate: Starting the Clock
A will has no legal power until the Surrogate’s Court says it does. The first step is to file a Petition for Probate, along with the original will, in the county where the person lived. The petition asks the court to formally admit the will as valid and appoint the person named as executor.
The court must be satisfied that the will is authentic. This involves notifying all interested parties—anyone who would inherit if there were no will, known as “distributees,” and anyone named in the will. These individuals have the right to review the document and, if they have grounds, to object. This checkpoint ensures everyone with a legal stake has notice and an opportunity to be heard before any assets are distributed.
Once the court is satisfied and any initial concerns are addressed, it issues a decree granting probate and officially appoints the executor by issuing “Letters Testamentary.” This document is the executor’s key. It grants them the legal authority to act on behalf of the estate. Without it, banks, brokerages, and other institutions will not grant access to the decedent’s assets.
The Executor’s Burden: More Than an Honor
Being named an executor is an honor, but it is also a demanding job with serious legal obligations. The executor is a fiduciary, which means they have a legal duty to act in the best interests of the estate and its beneficiaries. This role is not to be taken lightly—an executor can be held personally liable for mistakes or mismanagement.
The framework for these proceedings is laid out in New York’s Surrogate’s Court Procedure Act (SCPA). Specifically, SCPA Article 14 governs probate proceedings, from who can file a petition to how the court validates a will. As a fiduciary, the executor’s primary duties include:
- Marshaling Assets: Locating, gathering, and securing all of the decedent’s property. This can range from a simple bank account to complex business interests or out-of-state real estate.
- Paying Debts and Expenses: The estate is responsible for the decedent’s final debts, including credit card bills, medical expenses, and taxes. The executor must vet claims and pay legitimate obligations from estate funds.
- Filing Taxes: The executor must file the decedent’s final income tax return and, if the estate is large enough, state and federal estate tax returns.
- Accounting and Distribution: After all assets are collected and all debts are paid, the executor must provide an accounting to the beneficiaries and then distribute the remaining assets according to the will’s instructions.
This process takes time. A straightforward probate in New York might take nine months to a year. If there are complications—a will contest, difficulty selling property, or creditor disputes—it can take much longer. The executor’s job is to be a prudent, diligent, and transparent custodian throughout.
When the Process Hits a Snag
Most wills pass through probate without conflict, but challenges can arise. The most common is a will contest, where a party disputes the validity of the will itself. These challenges are not about fairness. They are based on specific legal grounds, such as:
- The will was not signed or witnessed correctly according to law.
- The decedent lacked the mental capacity to understand what they were signing.
- The decedent was subject to undue influence or fraud.
Contests can be emotionally and financially draining for a family. They require litigation, including witness testimony and extensive evidence gathering, all of which occurs in Surrogate’s Court. Another common delay involves creditors. An executor must wait a statutory period of seven months from their appointment to allow any potential creditors to come forward and make a claim against the estate. Distributing assets before this period ends can expose an executor to personal liability if a valid debt later surfaces.
My role as counsel is not just to file paperwork but to anticipate these contingencies. We work with executors to establish a clear plan for managing the estate, communicating with beneficiaries, and addressing disputes in a deliberate, methodical way.
Probate is the legal mechanism for transferring generational wealth. It can feel slow and formal, but every step is designed to protect the integrity of the decedent’s final wishes. With proper guidance, an executor can fulfill their duty with confidence and help their family close a difficult chapter.
If you have been named the executor of a will, the most prudent first action is to schedule a consultation to review the document. In that meeting, we will explain your duties as a fiduciary and prepare the petition to begin the probate process.




