When a family patriarch passes away in his Todt Hill home, his children often believe his signed will is the final word. They expect a straightforward process of distributing assets according to his wishes. But the will itself is just the starting point. The next nine to twelve months—sometimes longer—will be managed not just by the family, but by the Richmond County Surrogate’s Court. This process, known as probate or estate administration, is the formal mechanism for transferring a legacy from one generation to the next.
Probate with a Will, Administration Without One
In my practice, the first question I ask a family is always the same: “Did your loved one leave a will?” The answer determines which path we must take. The two processes are similar, but the legal authority and initial steps are critically different.
If a valid will exists, we initiate a probate proceeding. The person named in the will as the executor files a petition with the court, along with the original will and a death certificate. The court’s job is to officially validate the will and grant the executor the authority—called Letters Testamentary—to act on behalf of the estate. The executor is a fiduciary, bound by a strict duty to carry out the decedent’s instructions as written.
If there is no will, the person has died “intestate.” In this case, we begin an administration proceeding. Since the deceased did not name an executor, New York law dictates who has the right to serve as the estate’s administrator. The Surrogate’s Court Procedure Act (SCPA) §1001 sets out a clear order of priority, starting with the surviving spouse, then children, grandchildren, and so on. The court issues Letters of Administration, which grant the administrator the legal power to manage the estate. Their duty is not to a will, but to the state’s intestacy laws, which define how assets are distributed among the closest surviving relatives.
Whether an executor or an administrator, the role is one of immense responsibility. It is not an honorary title—it is a job with serious legal obligations.
The Fiduciary’s Role: Stewardship in Action
Once appointed by the court, the executor or administrator becomes the temporary custodian of the decedent’s entire financial life. This person’s primary function is to marshal all the assets, pay all legitimate debts, and distribute the remainder to the rightful beneficiaries or heirs. The reality is a tremendous amount of detailed work.
The core responsibilities include:
- Identifying and Securing Assets: This means locating every bank account, investment portfolio, piece of real estate, and valuable personal item. It can involve searching through old paperwork, contacting financial institutions, and getting property appraised.
- Notifying Creditors and Paying Debts: The estate is responsible for the decedent’s final debts, including mortgages, credit card bills, and taxes. The fiduciary must give notice to known creditors and pay valid claims from the estate’s funds before any money can be distributed to heirs.
- Filing Taxes: The estate is a separate tax-paying entity. The fiduciary must file a final personal income tax return for the decedent and, if the estate generates its own income, an estate income tax return.
- Accounting to the Beneficiaries: Throughout the process, the fiduciary has a duty to keep the beneficiaries informed. At the end, they must provide a full accounting of every dollar that came in and every dollar that went out before asking for approval to distribute the remaining assets.
This is not merely an administrative task. It is an act of stewardship. The person in charge is legally obligated to act prudently and in the best interests of the beneficiaries. Any failure to do so can result in personal liability and disputes that end up back in court.
When the Process Becomes Complicated
While many estate administrations are straightforward, complications are common. A simple probate can become a contentious legal battle if a disgruntled family member decides to contest the will. They might claim the decedent was not of sound mind when they signed it or was under undue influence from another person. This triggers a formal will contest, which can delay the distribution of assets for years and drain the estate’s resources through litigation.
Other challenges are less dramatic but just as disruptive. Sometimes, assets are difficult to locate, especially if the decedent was private about their finances. An administrator might discover surprise debts or liens against a property late in the process. And in blended families, disagreements between a surviving spouse and the children from a previous marriage are, unfortunately, a frequent source of conflict.
In these situations, the guidance of legal counsel is not a luxury—it is a necessity. An experienced attorney can help the fiduciary manage court procedures, mediate family disputes, and ensure every action taken is defensible and compliant with New York law.
The goal is to honor the decedent’s legacy by ensuring an orderly and fair transfer of assets. That process starts with understanding the legal framework and the profound responsibility that comes with managing someone else’s life’s work.
If you have been named an executor in a will or need to petition the court to become an administrator for a relative’s estate, the first step is to understand the scope of your duties. I invite you to schedule a consultation with our firm to review the estate documents and map out a clear path forward.





