A client recently came to my office with a shoebox. Inside was her late father’s will, a stack of unopened mail from the Kings County Surrogate’s Court, and three years of bank statements. She had been named the executor of his estate, and her first question was, “Where do I even begin?” It’s a question I’ve heard from hundreds of New Yorkers tasked with the stewardship of a loved one’s legacy. The role is an honor, but it is also a significant legal responsibility.
Probate is the court-supervised process for validating a will and settling an estate. It is the formal mechanism for transferring a person’s assets to their heirs. I tell my clients not to view it as a single, intimidating event, but as a series of distinct phases, each with its own duties.
The First 90 Days: Securing the Estate
The initial period after a death is the most critical for an executor. Your first job is not to distribute assets but to secure them. You must locate the original will and file a petition for probate with the Surrogate’s Court in the county where the decedent lived. This petition asks the court to validate the will and formally appoint you as the executor.
Once the court issues “Letters Testamentary,” you have the legal authority to act on behalf of the estate. This document is your proof of appointment. With it, you can begin the methodical work of marshalling assets. This involves:
- Identifying and creating an inventory of all estate property—bank accounts, real estate, investments, and personal belongings.
- Notifying banks, brokerage firms, and other financial institutions of the death and your appointment.
- Arranging for appraisals of valuable assets like real estate or artwork to establish a date-of-death value.
- Securing tangible property by changing locks on a home, safeguarding vehicles, or moving valuables to a secure location.
During this phase, you are a custodian. Your primary duty is to protect the value of the estate for the beneficiaries and creditors. Rushing this step is one of the most common and costly mistakes I see.
Understanding Your Fiduciary Duty
Being an executor is not an administrative task; it is a legal appointment that comes with a high standard of care known as a fiduciary duty. This is the highest duty recognized by law, requiring you to act with undivided loyalty and in the best interests of the estate. You must be prudent, transparent, and scrupulously honest.
New York’s Surrogate’s Court Procedure Act—specifically Article 14—governs the entire probate process. It lays out the rules an executor must follow. A breach of your fiduciary duty can have serious consequences. If a beneficiary believes you have mismanaged funds, sold property for less than fair market value, or favored one heir over another, they can petition the court to have you removed. You could also be held personally liable for any financial losses the estate suffers due to your actions.
This is not meant to intimidate, but to clarify. The court entrusts you with someone’s life’s work. That trust must be honored with deliberate and careful action.
Common Pitfalls That Expose Executors to Liability
Over my years of practice, I’ve seen well-intentioned executors make errors that create conflict and expose them to personal risk. Most of these mistakes are avoidable with proper guidance.
- Commingling Funds: An executor must open a separate bank account for the estate. All estate income should be deposited into this account, and all bills paid from it. Using your personal account to pay an estate bill—even with the intention of reimbursing yourself—is a breach of your duty. It creates an accounting nightmare and gives the appearance of impropriety.
- Distributing Assets Too Soon: Beneficiaries are often anxious to receive their inheritance. An executor cannot distribute assets until all of the decedent’s debts, taxes, and administrative expenses have been paid. New York law establishes an order of priority for paying claims. If you distribute assets and a valid creditor later comes forward, you may be held personally responsible for that debt.
- Poor Communication: The vast majority of probate disputes I see arise not from actual misconduct but from a lack of communication. When beneficiaries are kept in the dark, they assume the worst. As an executor, you have a duty to keep interested parties reasonably informed. Providing periodic, informal accountings can prevent suspicion from escalating into an expensive court battle.
The role of an executor is a profound responsibility. It requires patience, diligence, and an understanding of the legal framework that governs your actions. It is the final act of service you can perform for the person who entrusted you with their legacy.
If you have been named an executor and are unsure of your duties under the will or New York law, our firm can schedule a consultation to review the documents and establish a clear path forward for the administration of the estate.





