A man in Brooklyn loses his mother. She left a straightforward will naming him as the sole executor and beneficiary of her brownstone. He thinks it will be simple—he has the will, and he has the keys. But when he goes to the bank to access her account, he’s turned away. When he tries to speak to the mortgage company, they won’t talk to him. He soon learns a hard truth: the will, by itself, is just a piece of paper. To have any legal authority, it must be validated by the Kings County Surrogate’s Court. His life, for the next nine to twelve months, will be consumed by a process called probate.
I have seen this scenario play out countless times. A family, already grieving, is thrust into a formal and often frustrating court proceeding. Probate is the official mechanism by which a will is proven valid, an executor is formally appointed, and the deceased’s final affairs are settled under judicial oversight. This is the state’s way of ensuring that a person’s final wishes are honored, debts are paid, and property is transferred to the correct heirs.
The Executor’s Authority and Fiduciary Duty
The person named in the will to manage the estate is the executor. But you are not the executor just by being named in the document. The Surrogate’s Court must officially appoint you and grant you “Letters Testamentary”—the legal document that serves as your proof of authority. Without these Letters, you cannot marshal assets, pay bills, sell property, or make distributions. You are an executor-in-waiting.
Once appointed, your role is that of a fiduciary. This is a critical legal concept. It means you have a legal and ethical obligation to act solely in the best interests of the estate and its beneficiaries. Your personal interests must be set aside entirely. This duty of stewardship involves several core responsibilities:
- Marshalling Assets: You must identify, locate, and take control of all property owned by the deceased. This can range from bank accounts and real estate to digital assets and personal belongings.
- Paying Debts and Taxes: The estate is responsible for the deceased’s legitimate debts. You must notify creditors, evaluate claims, and pay valid bills from the estate’s funds. You are also responsible for filing the deceased’s final income tax returns and any required estate tax returns.
- Accounting: You must keep meticulous records of every dollar that comes into and goes out of the estate. Beneficiaries are entitled to an accounting of your actions, and the court may require you to submit a formal accounting before the estate can be closed.
- Distribution: After all assets are collected and all debts and taxes are paid, you will distribute the remaining property to the beneficiaries as directed by the will.
This is not a simple checklist. Fulfilling these duties requires diligence, transparency, and an ability to communicate with beneficiaries who may be anxious or distrustful. Any misstep, even an unintentional one, can expose you to personal liability.
Why Probate Can Become Complicated
While many estates proceed through probate without issue, some encounter significant delays and disputes. The most common complication is a will contest, where an interested party—typically a family member who feels they were treated unfairly—challenges the validity of the will. In New York, grounds for a will contest are specific and narrow. A challenger might claim the will was improperly executed, the deceased lacked the mental capacity to sign it, or that they were under duress or undue influence.
The process for investigating these claims is defined by statute. Under Surrogate’s Court Procedure Act (SCPA) § 1404, for example, objectants have the right to conduct examinations of the attorney who drafted the will and the witnesses who were present at the signing. These “1404 examinations” can be the first step in a long and costly litigation process that can drain estate assets and deepen family divisions.
Even without a formal will contest, probate can be slowed by other factors. An estate with complex assets, such as a family-owned business in Manhattan, requires sophisticated valuation and management. If a beneficiary cannot be located, the process can stall. If the deceased owned property in another state, a separate “ancillary” probate proceeding may be required there. These are not insurmountable obstacles, but they require careful management by an executor and their counsel.
The Alternative: Intentional Planning
The probate process exists for a reason, but it is not always mandatory. Many of the delays, costs, and public disclosures associated with Surrogate’s Court can be avoided through deliberate estate planning. The most effective tool for this is often a revocable living trust.
When assets are transferred into a trust during your lifetime, they are no longer part of your probate estate upon your death. The successor trustee you named can step in immediately to manage and distribute the assets according to the trust’s terms, without any court intervention. Bank accounts, real estate, and other property titled in the name of a trust bypass probate entirely. This is the difference between a private, efficient administration and a public, court-supervised one.
Stewardship. It’s about being intentional with your legacy. While a will is an essential document, understanding its limitations is just as important as having one. For many families, pairing a will with a trust is the most prudent path to ensuring a smooth transition of generational wealth.
If you have been named as an executor in a will and are unsure of your responsibilities, the first step is to locate the original document and a certified copy of the death certificate. With these two items, our firm can conduct an initial review to outline the immediate steps required by the Surrogate’s Court and your duties as a fiduciary.





