A Brooklyn widower executes a simple will leaving his entire estate “to my three children.” It sounds straightforward. A decade later, his eldest daughter passes away, leaving behind two young children. When the widower eventually dies, the executor of his estate faces a critical question: do the two orphaned grandchildren step into their mother’s shoes to inherit her third of the estate, or does the entire estate now divide in half between the widower’s two surviving children?
The answer does not depend on what the widower whispered at family dinners, nor does it depend on what seems fair. It depends entirely on the precise legal mechanics drafted into his estate documents. When we construct an estate plan, we are not simply passing assets from one person to another. We are building a contingency framework for the unknown. Two Latin phrases—per stirpes and per capita—control how that framework operates when a beneficiary predeceases the estate owner.
The Default Rules of Surrogate’s Court
If your estate planning documents lack explicit instructions regarding deceased beneficiaries, New York law steps in to fill the silence. Under the Estates, Powers and Trusts Law (EPTL) § 2-1.2, a disposition to “issue” or descendants without further qualification defaults to a system called “by representation.”
While this default standard works for some, relying on the state’s baseline assumption is the opposite of deliberate planning. New York’s default “by representation” model pools and divides assets at the next surviving generational level, which frequently surprises families who assumed a strict bloodline descent. As attorneys, we rarely want the state making assumptions about your family’s inheritance. Instead, I advise clients to explicitly override these defaults by selecting a specific distribution method that aligns with their actual intent.
Per Stirpes: Preserving the Family Branch
Translated from Latin, per stirpes means “by the root” or “by the branch.” This is the method most clients actually have in mind when they visualize passing down their wealth. It is designed to keep an inheritance strictly within a designated family line, protecting the descendants of a beneficiary who dies prematurely.
If you leave your estate to your three children per stirpes, the estate is divided into three equal shares. If all three children outlive you, they each take their third. However, if one child predeceases you, their specific one-third share does not evaporate. Instead, it drops down their specific branch of the family tree to their children (your grandchildren). Those grandchildren divide their deceased parent’s share equally among themselves.
Stewardship.
That is what per stirpes distribution represents. It acts as an automatic safeguard against unintentional disinheritance. When I sit across the table from a client, they generally want their grandchildren to be protected if a parent is lost. With a per stirpes designation, we ensure that the tragic loss of a child does not compound into the financial disenfranchisement of their children.
Per Capita: Equal Division by the Head
In stark contrast, per capita translates to “by the head.” This method ignores family branches entirely and focuses solely on the living individuals within a specified group at the exact moment the estate is distributed.
If you designate that your assets pass to your children per capita, the executor simply counts the living children at the time of your death and divides the assets equally among them. If you have three children and one predeceases you, the deceased child’s share is completely eliminated. The estate is then divided in half between the two surviving children. The children of your deceased child—your grandchildren—receive absolutely nothing directly from the estate.
There are deliberate reasons to choose this method. Some clients prefer per capita distributions because they only want their assets going to individuals who are alive and whom they actively know, rather than passing down to distant descendants. Others use it when gifting to a specific class of people—such as leaving a vacation home “to my living grandchildren, per capita“—ensuring that every grandchild gets an equal fractional interest, regardless of how many siblings they have.
However, when a per capita designation is used accidentally, the results in Surrogate’s Court can be devastating to a family’s cohesion. The surviving siblings inherit a windfall, while the orphaned nieces and nephews are left empty-handed.
The Hidden Danger in Beneficiary Forms
A fatal mistake many high-net-worth individuals make is assuming their last will and testament controls all their assets. It does not. Life insurance policies, 401(k)s, IRAs, and brokerage accounts pass completely outside of your will. They are governed by the specific beneficiary designation forms on file with the financial institution.
Often, these forms contain tiny, easily overlooked checkboxes for “Per Stirpes” or “Per Capita.” A client might spend weeks working with our firm to draft a meticulous trust that protects their grandchildren, only to log into their Vanguard account and hastily check a “Per Capita” box on a $2 million IRA. If that client’s child predeceases them, the financial institution will enforce the per capita election on the form, overriding the careful bloodline preservation built into the trust.
The fiduciary duty of a trustee or executor requires them to follow the exact legal instructions left behind, no matter how much they might sympathize with a disinherited grandchild. They cannot rewrite a beneficiary form after your death to fix a clerical oversight.
Taking Control of Your Distribution Strategy
Your legacy should not be dictated by a misunderstood Latin phrase or a default state statute. The exact mechanics of how your wealth transfers to the next generation require intentional, precise drafting that accounts for every contingency.
If you are unsure whether your current estate plan protects your grandchildren in the event of a tragedy, or if you have never aligned your retirement account forms with your will, it is time to inspect the architecture of your plan. Pull your current beneficiary designation forms from your financial institutions, and schedule a review with our office to verify exactly how your assets will flow under current New York law.




