A client came to me last year with what he thought was a simple plan. He and his wife had owned their Brooklyn brownstone since the 1980s and wanted to give it to their daughter now, while they were alive to see her enjoy it. He planned to just sign a new deed, transferring ownership. It’s a generous impulse I see often. It is also a profound financial mistake for the next generation.
The decision to gift a major asset like real estate versus passing it through a will or trust is not just a matter of timing. It creates significant, and often irreversible, tax consequences. The difference comes down to a concept called “cost basis”—a term that can mean a tax-free inheritance or a six-figure bill for your children.
The Allure of the Simple Gift—And Its Hidden Tax Trap
When you give property to someone during your lifetime, the recipient—in this case, the daughter—also receives your original cost basis. This is the price you paid for the property, plus the cost of any capital improvements. For that Brooklyn brownstone purchased 40 years ago, the basis might be $100,000. Today, its fair market value could easily be $2.5 million.
If the daughter receives the home as a gift, her cost basis is her parents’ $100,000. If she decides to sell it a year later for its market value, she faces a capital gains tax on the difference: $2.4 million. At federal and New York State tax rates, that could trigger a tax liability of hundreds of thousands of dollars. The well-intentioned gift becomes a massive financial burden.
Without prudent counsel, a straightforward act of generosity goes wrong. The goal is to transfer a legacy, not a tax liability. Gifting highly appreciated property directly undermines that goal.
Inheritance and the Power of the “Stepped-Up Basis”
The alternative path is allowing the property to pass to a beneficiary upon death, either through a will or a trust. The tax treatment here is dramatically different. Under current federal law, an inherited asset receives what is known as a “stepped-up basis.”
This means the asset’s cost basis is reset to its fair market value on the date of the owner’s death. Using our same example, if the daughter inherits the brownstone when it is worth $2.5 million, her new basis is $2.5 million. If she sells it immediately, her capital gain is zero. The decades of appreciation are effectively erased for capital gains tax purposes. This is one of the most powerful wealth-transfer tools in the tax code.
For most families, this single distinction makes inheritance the far more prudent strategy for highly appreciated assets. It protects the value you’ve built over a lifetime from being eroded by taxes when it passes to the next generation. Stewardship.
When Does Gifting Still Make Sense?
Despite the clear tax advantages of inheritance, there are specific circumstances where lifetime gifting remains a deliberate part of an estate plan. These situations typically involve very high-net-worth individuals whose estates exceed federal or New York State estate tax exemption limits.
New York has its own estate tax, separate from the federal one. As of 2024, the New York exemption is $6.94 million. If your estate is valued above this amount, strategic gifting can reduce its size and, therefore, the potential estate tax due. However, this strategy requires careful planning. Under New York Tax Law § 954, certain large gifts made within three years of death can be “clawed back” and included in the decedent’s taxable estate. This rule prevents last-minute gifting solely to dodge the estate tax.
Gifting may also be considered for long-term care planning, specifically for Medicaid eligibility. But this is another area involving a five-year look-back period and complex rules. This is not a step to take without guidance.
The choice is not a simple “either/or.” It is a calculated decision based on the type of asset, its appreciation, your overall net worth, and your family’s long-term objectives. What seems like a simple transfer of a deed is never just that—it’s a critical junction in your family’s financial story.
Before you consider transferring a deed or making a significant gift, the first deliberate step is to understand the numbers involved. A clear picture of an asset’s original cost and its current value is the foundation for any sound decision. My firm can begin by scheduling a property and basis review to model the tax consequences of each potential path for your key assets.


