When a family in Manhattan loses a parent, the grief is overwhelming. If they then discover that parent died without a will, their grief is compounded by a sudden and total loss of control. Their loved one’s assets are effectively frozen, and the next year—or more—of their financial lives will be dictated by the New York Surrogate’s Court. The first question I always hear in this situation is, “How long is this going to take?”
The honest answer is: longer than anyone wants. Without a will, you don’t have a probate proceeding; you have what’s called an “administration proceeding.” This is the court’s process for sorting out an “intestate” estate. Instead of an Executor named by your loved one, the court appoints an Administrator to act as the fiduciary. This distinction is the source of the first, and often most significant, delay.
The Administration Proceeding: Why the Clock Starts Slow
A will is an instruction manual. It names an Executor, identifies beneficiaries, and provides a clear path forward. Without that manual, the court must create a path from scratch, following a rigid set of state laws. The first step is petitioning the court to appoint an Administrator. This person—usually a close relative—must be formally approved by the court to manage the estate.
This immediately presents a hurdle. Who has the right to serve? New York’s Estates, Powers and Trusts Law (EPTL) § 4-1.1 provides a strict hierarchy of inheritance. This same order of priority generally guides who has the right to petition to become the Administrator. A surviving spouse has first priority, followed by children, then grandchildren, and so on. If family members disagree on who should take the role, or if there are multiple people with equal priority, the court must intervene. This initial conflict can add months to the timeline before a single asset is even touched.
Once an Administrator is appointed, their work begins. Their fiduciary duty requires them to:
- Identify and gather all the decedent’s assets.
- Conduct a diligent search for all potential heirs.
- Pay all legitimate debts and taxes of the estate.
- Formally account for all funds.
- Distribute the remaining assets according to the state’s intestacy statute.
This process is deliberate and methodical. It is not designed for speed; it is designed to protect heirs and creditors under the supervision of the court. Stewardship.
Common Delays in an Intestate Estate
In my practice, I have seen administration proceedings conclude in as little as nine months, but I have also seen them extend for several years. The timeline is rarely determined by the efficiency of the attorney or the court. It is dictated by the complexity of the estate and the family dynamics involved.
Identifying Heirs: The Administrator has a legal duty to find every person entitled to inherit. What if the decedent had a child from a previous marriage who is now living abroad? What if a potential heir is estranged from the family? A formal search, sometimes requiring a genealogist, must be conducted and documented for the court. This alone can take months.
Valuing and Liquidating Assets: A simple estate with a few bank accounts is one thing. An estate with a business, a co-op apartment, and a collection of fine art is another. Each asset must be professionally appraised to determine its value as of the date of death. Selling real estate or unwinding a business interest is a major undertaking that must be approved by the court, adding significant time.
Dealing with Creditors: After an Administrator is appointed, a notice is given to potential creditors. In New York, creditors have seven months from the date the Administrator is appointed to file a claim against the estate. No final distribution to heirs can happen before this period expires and all valid claims are settled. This seven-month clock is a statutory minimum.
Family Conflict: The single greatest cause for delay is conflict among the heirs. Disagreements over who should be Administrator, the value of a particular asset, or whether a piece of property should be sold can bring the entire process to a grinding halt. When heirs cannot agree, the matter goes before the judge, and the estate’s progress is then subject to the court’s calendar.
A Realistic Timeline
So, how long does it really take? For the most straightforward intestate estate—say, a single decedent with two adult children, a house in Brooklyn, and a bank account—the family should prepare for a timeline of 9 to 14 months. This assumes full cooperation among the heirs and no unusual assets or debts.
For a more complex estate involving a business, out-of-state property, a difficult heir search, or any level of family disagreement, the timeline can easily stretch to two years or more. Every complication adds another layer of court filings, another waiting period, and another opportunity for dispute.
The difficult truth is that dying without a will surrenders control of your legacy to a public, often slow-moving process. It creates uncertainty where there could have been clarity and invites conflict where there should be healing. The time and expense of an administration proceeding almost always dwarf the cost of creating a deliberate estate plan.
The most prudent step you can take is to prevent your own family from enduring this process. If you do not have a will or trust, your legacy is not in your hands—it is in the hands of the state. To understand how you can put a clear plan in place, the first step is an honest assessment of your assets and family structure. I invite you to schedule a confidential review with our firm to begin mapping out your intentions.




