A few months after her uncle passed away in Brooklyn, a client called our office. She knew she was named in his will—he’d told her so himself—but she had not heard a word from the executor. Weeks of silence had turned into months, and her patience was turning into real concern. Is this normal? she asked. Has something gone wrong? It’s one of the most common questions we hear. The silence feels personal, but the delay is almost always procedural.
For beneficiaries, waiting to be formally notified about an inheritance adds financial and emotional stress to a period of grief. There is no single, fixed timeline. The process is governed by the duties of an executor or trustee and the specific requirements of New York law. Understanding these steps helps manage expectations during a difficult time.
The Executor’s Role and Surrogate’s Court
When an estate is managed through a will, nothing happens automatically. The person named as executor in the will has no immediate authority to act. Their power becomes official only after they petition the Surrogate’s Court in the county where the deceased lived and are formally appointed by a judge. This appointment comes in a court order called Letters Testamentary.
This initial step is often the source of the first delay. The executor must locate the original will, gather documents like the death certificate, and prepare a probate petition. This petition must list all the deceased person’s legal heirs, known as “distributees”—the individuals who would have inherited if no will existed. Identifying and locating every distributee can take significant time, especially if they are distant or estranged relatives.
Only after this petition is filed can the legal notification process begin. Until the court grants Letters Testamentary, the executor has no legal standing to manage estate assets or make official communications. The court process itself can take weeks or months, depending on the court’s caseload.
Formal Notice Under New York Law
Once the probate petition is filed, New York law sets out specific rules for notifying interested parties. This is not a courtesy call; it is a formal legal requirement designed to protect the rights of everyone with a potential claim to the estate.
Specifically, Surrogate’s Court Procedure Act (SCPA) § 1409 requires that a “notice of probate” be sent to certain individuals. This notice informs them that a will has been submitted to the court and gives them a deadline to object if they believe the will is invalid. It must be sent to:
- All distributees who were not part of the initial petition.
- Anyone named in the will whose inheritance is negatively affected by a later amendment, known as a codicil.
- The New York State Attorney General, if the will includes a charitable donation to an unnamed organization.
This formal notice is a critical milestone. It confirms that the estate administration is officially underway, though it does not mean assets are ready for distribution. The timing of this notice is directly tied to the filing of the probate petition, not the date of death.
When a Trust Changes the Timeline
The process is different if the assets were held in a trust. A revocable living trust is administered privately, without the direct supervision of the Surrogate’s Court. The probate process, including the SCPA § 1409 notice, does not apply to assets held by the trust.
Here, the successor trustee named in the trust document takes control of the assets upon the creator’s death. The trustee has a fiduciary duty to the beneficiaries, which includes keeping them reasonably informed about the trust’s administration. The trust document itself often outlines the trustee’s responsibilities and specifies how and when beneficiaries should be notified.
While trust administration is generally faster than probate, it is not immediate. The successor trustee must still gather and value all trust assets, pay the deceased’s final debts and taxes, and then distribute the property according to the trust’s terms. Delays can still occur if assets are complex or if a trustee is not diligent in their duties.
What If You Haven’t Heard Anything?
If a significant amount of time has passed and you believe you are a beneficiary but have heard nothing, it does not automatically mean there is a problem. The executor or trustee may be working through preliminary steps, like searching for assets or identifying all the heirs.
As a beneficiary, however, you have rights. You are entitled to be kept reasonably informed. If an executor has been appointed, the estate becomes a public record. You or your attorney can check the Surrogate’s Court file for information. If the estate is in a trust, a formal request for information from the trustee may be necessary.
The timeline is driven by legal and administrative duties, not a calendar. The executor’s first duty is to the estate as a whole—to marshal assets, pay creditors, and follow the law—before any distributions can be made to individual beneficiaries.
If you are named as an executor in a will and are uncertain about your obligations for notifying beneficiaries and heirs, our firm can provide a clear roadmap. We can schedule a private consultation to review the will and outline the petition process for Surrogate’s Court to ensure your duties are met correctly from the start.



