A son in Manhattan is named executor of his father’s will. His sister, who lives in California, starts calling every week. “Did you sell the apartment yet? How much were the funeral expenses? What’s left in the bank account?” The son, already grieving and overwhelmed, feels defensive. He’s trying his best, but the questions feel like accusations. My firm sees this scenario often—a family dealing with loss, where trust is tested by distance and financial uncertainty.
The core of the issue is not just money. It is about a legal and moral responsibility known as fiduciary duty. When you agree to be an executor, you are not just a manager of assets; you become a steward for the beneficiaries. This is the highest duty recognized by law, demanding transparency, loyalty, and prudence.
The Fiduciary Duty of an Executor
An executor’s role is more than a checklist. It is a position of profound trust. You are legally obligated to act in the best interests of the estate and its beneficiaries—not your own. This means collecting the decedent’s assets, paying legitimate debts and taxes, and distributing what remains according to the will. Every decision, from selling a property to paying a bill, must be made with care and documented meticulously.
This duty is not abstract. It has real consequences. An executor who mismanages funds, pays themselves an unreasonable fee, or fails to communicate can be held personally liable for any losses. The beneficiaries are not simply waiting for a check; they are entitled to a transparent process. The New York Surrogate’s Court takes this responsibility seriously, and so should any person who accepts the role.
What “Accounting” Really Means
When beneficiaries ask for an “accounting,” they may mean different things. Sometimes, a simple, informal update with bank statements and a list of expenses is enough to maintain harmony. Proactive communication can prevent most disputes. I often advise executors we represent to provide regular, informal summaries to keep everyone informed and build confidence.
A formal accounting, however, is a different matter. This is a detailed report filed with the Surrogate’s Court. It must show:
- All assets collected and their value at the time of death.
- Any income the estate earned during administration, like interest or rent.
- All expenses paid, including funeral costs, legal fees, and debts.
- Any gains or losses from the sale of assets.
- The proposed plan for final distribution to the beneficiaries.
Preparing a formal accounting is a complex process. Every number must be backed by documentation. It is a legal filing that must adhere to specific court rules, not a simple spreadsheet. An executor is not required to provide a formal accounting automatically, but must be prepared to do so if a beneficiary requests it.
A Beneficiary’s Right to Compel an Accounting
Beneficiaries are not powerless. If an executor is unresponsive, takes too long, or is suspected of mismanagement, the law provides a remedy. Under New York’s Surrogate’s Court Procedure Act (SCPA) § 2205, an interested party—such as a beneficiary—can petition the court to compel the executor to file a formal accounting.
A beneficiary can typically file this petition seven months after the executor is appointed. Once filed, the court will issue an order directing the executor to account by a specific date. Failure to comply can lead to serious penalties, including the executor’s removal and personal financial liability.
This legal tool exists to enforce the executor’s core duty. Stewardship. It ensures no executor can operate in secret. It holds them to the high standard their role demands and gives beneficiaries the ability to protect their inheritance.
Prudent Steps for Executors and Beneficiaries
For executors, the path is clear: document everything. From the moment you are appointed, open a separate bank account for the estate. Pay all estate expenses from that account. Keep every receipt, invoice, and statement. This is not just about protecting yourself; it is about honoring the trust placed in you. Clear records are the foundation of a smooth estate administration.
For beneficiaries, patience is important, as the probate process takes time. But patience should not become passive acceptance of silence or evasion. If you have legitimate concerns about how an estate is being handled, you have the right to ask for clarity. A formal request for information is the first step, followed by legal action only if necessary.
Whether you are an executor managing an estate or a beneficiary protecting your rights, the situation requires a deliberate approach. If you find yourself in this position, the first step is to get a clear picture of the legal duties involved. Our firm often begins with a fiduciary review, where we assess the will, the estate’s assets, and the actions taken to date to provide a clear path forward.




