A paid-off brownstone in Carroll Gardens, a modest stock portfolio, and a will drafted a decade ago. For many families, these are the pieces left behind when a parent dies. In Brooklyn, the task of assembling these pieces and honoring the deceased’s final wishes falls to the Kings County Surrogate’s Court through a process called probate.
I often meet with people named as an executor in a family member’s will. They arrive with a sense of duty, but also with uncertainty. They see probate as a mysterious, intimidating ordeal. It isn’t. Probate is the court-supervised process for bringing order to a person’s financial life and transferring ownership from the deceased to their heirs.
The Court’s Role and the Executor’s Duty
When a will is submitted to the Surrogate’s Court, the court has several key functions. First, it must determine if the will is legally valid. Was it signed correctly? Were there two witnesses? Was the person who signed it of sound mind and free from undue influence? If the will is deemed valid, the court officially appoints the executor named in the document. This appointment grants the executor legal authority through a document called “Letters Testamentary.”
This is where the real work begins. The executor becomes a fiduciary—a person legally and ethically bound to act in the best interests of the estate and its beneficiaries. This is not a casual role. It is a position of immense trust, carrying significant personal responsibility. The executor’s primary duties are to:
- Identify and gather all the decedent’s assets.
- Pay all legitimate debts, taxes, and administrative expenses.
- Manage estate property prudently until it can be distributed.
- Provide a formal accounting to the beneficiaries and the court.
- Distribute the remaining assets according to the instructions in the will.
This process is methodical and requires meticulous record-keeping. Every dollar must be accounted for. The executor must be the careful steward of the assets until they reach their intended destination.
The Path Through Surrogate’s Court
The probate process follows a clear path, but it is rarely a quick one. After filing the probate petition and the original will, the executor must formally notify all parties who have an interest in the estate. This includes everyone named in the will and any family members who would have inherited by law if there had been no will.
This notification is critical—it gives interested parties a chance to object. A will contest is one of the most common reasons for probate delays. Under New York’s Surrogate’s Court Procedure Act (SCPA) §1410, only parties with a direct financial interest that would be harmed by the will’s admission to probate have the standing to file objections. These challenges are often based on claims of improper execution, lack of capacity, or undue influence.
Even without a will contest, challenges can arise. An executor might have to deal with creditor claims, track down missing assets, or get appraisals for unique property like art or real estate. Each step requires patience and precision. A simple administrative error—like failing to properly notify a distant relative—can bring the entire process to a halt until it is corrected.
Stewardship in Action
Over my years of practice, I have seen well-intentioned executors make critical mistakes. Some distribute assets to beneficiaries too early, before discovering a large, unpaid medical bill or tax liability. Others might commingle their personal funds with estate funds, creating an accounting nightmare that draws scrutiny from the court and beneficiaries alike.
These are not just clerical errors. As a fiduciary, an executor can be held personally liable for financial losses to the estate caused by their negligence or misconduct. The role is more than a checklist—it is the final act of service for a person who trusted you.
The goal is to move through the process efficiently and correctly, preserving as much of the estate’s value as possible for the next generation. It’s about implementing a plan that someone carefully laid out. It is about honoring a legacy. Stewardship.
Probate is a structured, necessary process. As executor, you have a significant responsibility requiring diligence and a clear understanding of the law. Your role is to close one chapter of your family’s story with integrity so the next one can begin.
If you have been named as an executor in a will and are preparing to begin the probate process, our firm offers an initial consultation to review the will and map out your fiduciary responsibilities under the law.





