A client recently came to my office with her late father’s will. She was named the executor—the person responsible for carrying out his final wishes. She lives in Brooklyn, but he had lived on Long Island, and while she was still grieving, she was already receiving mail about his assets, his debts, and the local Surrogate’s Court. She felt honored by his trust, but also overwhelmed. “I have no idea where to even start,” she told me. “Am I personally responsible for all this?”
Her question is central to why professional guidance during probate is essential. An executor is not merely an administrator. You are a fiduciary.
The Fiduciary Duty of an Executor
A fiduciary is held to the highest standard of care. When you agree to serve as an executor, you accept a legal duty to act prudently and solely in the best interests of the estate and its beneficiaries. This is not a simple task of distributing assets. The role is active, involving marshalling assets, paying legitimate debts, filing tax returns, and communicating with often-anxious beneficiaries—all under the supervision of the court.
Mistakes can have serious consequences. If an executor distributes assets too early, before settling all creditor claims, they can be held personally liable for the shortfall. If they mismanage estate investments or fail to properly account for every dollar, beneficiaries can sue them for breach of fiduciary duty. My role as counsel is to guide the executor through these duties, ensuring every action is defensible, documented, and compliant with New York law. It’s about stewardship, but it is also about protecting the executor from personal risk.
The Court Process is Not Intuitive
The probate process begins with a formal petition to the Surrogate’s Court in the county where the deceased resided. The rules for this are laid out in the Surrogate’s Court Procedure Act (SCPA). For example, SCPA §1402 specifies exactly who is permitted to file the petition to probate a will—it’s not an informal process. The court requires original documents, signed petitions, notices sent to all interested parties, and a strict adherence to deadlines.
For someone who has never interacted with the court system, the process can be disorienting. The court clerks are prohibited from giving legal advice, and a simple error on a form can cause weeks or even months of delay. We handle these procedural mechanics. We prepare the petitions, file the necessary affidavits, and appear in court on behalf of the executor. This allows the family to focus on their lives, confident that the legal framework is being managed correctly.
Managing Assets, Creditors, and Beneficiaries
Once the court officially appoints the executor by issuing “Letters Testamentary,” the real work begins. The job involves far more than reading the will. An executor must:
- Identify and secure all estate assets. This could range from a Manhattan co-op and a stock portfolio to digital assets and family heirlooms.
- Obtain formal appraisals for real estate, art, and other significant property.
- Notify all known creditors and publish a notice for any unknown creditors.
- Evaluate the legitimacy of claims made against the estate and pay valid debts and final expenses.
- Manage and file the decedent’s final income tax returns as well as the estate’s income and estate tax returns, if required.
- Provide a formal accounting to the beneficiaries showing every transaction before making final distributions.
Each of these steps is a potential pitfall. The executor often becomes the single point of contact for family members who may have different expectations or financial needs. An attorney acting as an intermediary provides critical distance. We explain the process to beneficiaries, manage expectations on timing, and handle difficult conversations—preserving family relationships during a stressful time.
When Conflicts Arise
Not every probate is straightforward. Sometimes a disgruntled heir will contest the will, arguing it was signed under duress or that the decedent lacked capacity. Other times, beneficiaries may disagree with the executor’s decisions, such as the sale price of a family home. In these situations, the executor needs an advocate.
We represent executors in will contests and other estate litigation. Our job is to defend the validity of the will and the actions of the executor, always aiming to resolve disputes efficiently. The goal is to honor the decedent’s intentions and protect the estate from being depleted by protracted legal battles. But if a fight is necessary, we are prepared for it.
Being an executor is a significant commitment. It is an act of service to the person who trusted you with their legacy. You do not have to carry that burden alone. Professional counsel provides the structure, legal protection, and expertise to see the process through correctly and honorably.
If you have been named an executor and are unsure of your first steps, the first prudent action is to clarify your obligations. We conduct a preliminary consultation to review the will and outline an executor’s duties under New York law.




