A client came to my office last month with a twenty-year-old will. When he first drafted it, he named his brother—then his business partner and closest friend—as his executor. It was an obvious choice at the time. Today, his brother lives across the country, manages his own health issues, and their business relationship ended years ago on a sour note. The client knew the person he’d entrusted to be the steward of his family’s legacy was no longer the right one.
This is a common story, and it highlights a critical failure point in many estate plans. The person you name as executor holds immense responsibility. They are a fiduciary, legally bound to act in the best interests of your estate and its beneficiaries. Their job isn’t just an honor; it’s a demanding role that requires time, integrity, and a steady hand. When life circumstances change, failing to update this choice is a failure of stewardship.
Why a Prudent Person Reconsiders Their Executor
Naming an executor is a decision made at a single point in time, but life is not static. A choice that was perfect a decade ago can become a significant liability. In my practice, I’ve seen families grapple with the consequences of an outdated appointment. The reasons for a change are almost always rooted in simple, human realities.
Perhaps the person you named has passed away or is now in poor health. Maybe they moved thousands of miles away, making the administration of a New York estate impractical. Sometimes the issue is a change in the relationship itself—a divorce, a falling out, or a loss of trust. I’ve also seen cases where the named executor has developed financial problems of their own, creating a conflict of interest that could put your estate at risk.
Revisiting this decision isn’t a sign of distrust. It’s an act of deliberate and intentional planning. It ensures the person tasked with executing your wishes is still the most capable and trustworthy individual for the job.
A Codicil or a New Will: The Mechanics of an Update
When you decide to change your executor, you have two primary legal paths forward in New York. The choice between them depends on the scope of your changes.
The first option is to execute a codicil. A codicil is a legal document that acts as an amendment to your existing will. It doesn’t replace the entire will; it only modifies specific provisions—in this case, revoking the appointment of the old executor and naming a new one. A codicil is often a good choice if this is the only change you need to make. It must be executed with the exact same legal formalities as a will: signed by you in the presence of two witnesses, who also sign.
The second option is to create an entirely new will. This new document explicitly states that it revokes all prior wills and codicils. While it may seem more involved, drafting a new will is often the cleaner and safer approach, especially if you have other changes to make or if your original will is very old. It prevents potential confusion that could arise from having multiple documents—a will and one or more codicils—that need to be interpreted together.
Whether by codicil or a new will, the change must be made formally. A handwritten note in the margin or simply telling your family about your new preference has no legal effect.
Removing an Executor After a Death
What happens if the person who wrote the will—the testator—has already passed away? This is a far more difficult situation. Beneficiaries cannot simply “fire” an executor because they dislike them or disagree with their decisions. Removal is a formal legal proceeding that must be brought before the Surrogate’s Court.
The grounds for removing an executor are specific and are outlined in New York’s Surrogate’s Court Procedure Act (SCPA) §711. A court will not remove an executor for minor disagreements. A beneficiary must petition the court and prove that the executor has engaged in serious misconduct. This could include:
- Wasting or improperly managing estate assets.
- Engaging in dishonest conduct or fraud.
- Failing to obey a court order.
- Being convicted of a felony.
- Becoming otherwise unfit for the position due to substance abuse, incapacity, or a clear conflict of interest.
This process is litigation. It is adversarial, often expensive, and can create deep divisions within a family already coping with loss. The best way to avoid putting your loved ones through such a conflict is to ensure your will remains current throughout your life. You are the custodian of your legacy, and that includes making sure the right person is at the helm when you are no longer here.
The choice of an executor is too important to be left to an outdated document. If your circumstances have changed, we can schedule a confidential review of your existing will and fiduciary appointments. It’s a straightforward step to ensure the person in charge of your legacy is still the right one.



