A new client recently sat in my Manhattan office, notebook open, ready to discuss his estate plan. “Russel,” he said, “I’ve been reading online, and I can’t figure it out. Should I get a living trust or a revocable trust? What’s the difference?” It’s a question my team and I hear almost weekly. The internet has created a false debate, pitting two terms against each other that are not in conflict.
The confusion is understandable, but the answer is straightforward: A revocable trust is a type of living trust. The question is not which one to choose, but what kind of trust is appropriate for your family’s legacy.
What We Mean by “Living Trust”
A “living trust” is any trust you create and fund during your lifetime. The formal name is an inter vivos trust—Latin for “between the living.” It exists and operates while you are alive, managed by a trustee you appoint, which is often yourself at the start.
This distinguishes it from a testamentary trust, which is created by your will and only comes into existence after your death and after validation by the Surrogate’s Court. Because a living trust is already operational, the assets it holds bypass the probate process entirely. This is a primary reason many New York families use them. It saves time, expense, and keeps the family’s financial affairs private.
Creating a living trust is just the first step. The critical decision comes next: determining its rules of operation.
The Real Question: Should Your Trust Be Revocable or Irrevocable?
Every living trust must be one of two things: revocable or irrevocable. This choice has significant consequences for your control, your assets, and your ultimate goals. It is where the true stewardship of your legacy begins.
A revocable living trust is the most common instrument we create for families. It offers maximum flexibility. As the grantor—the person who creates the trust—you retain complete control. You can amend its terms, add or remove assets, change beneficiaries, or dissolve the entire trust whenever you wish. You can serve as your own trustee, managing the assets just as you did before. For all practical purposes, the assets are still yours. This structure is excellent for probate avoidance and for managing your affairs if you become incapacitated, but it does not offer protection from creditors or reduce estate taxes.
An irrevocable living trust is a permanent arrangement. When you transfer assets into an irrevocable trust, you, as the grantor, give up control and ownership. You cannot easily amend the trust or take the assets back. This surrender of control is done for an intentional purpose—typically to protect assets from creditors, minimize estate taxes, or plan for long-term care costs. Because the assets are no longer legally yours, they are shielded in ways that assets in a revocable trust are not.
Why This Distinction Matters for New Yorkers
Choosing between revocable and irrevocable is not an abstract legal exercise. It has direct, tangible effects on your family’s future. A revocable trust provides a private and efficient alternative to a public probate proceeding in Surrogate’s Court. It ensures a seamless transition of stewardship to your chosen successor trustee, allowing them to manage assets for your beneficiaries without court intervention.
Making a trust irrevocable is a deliberate act with profound consequences. While “irrevocable” sounds final, New York law provides a narrow path for modification. Under Estates, Powers and Trusts Law (EPTL) § 7-1.9, an irrevocable trust can sometimes be amended or terminated with the written consent of all beneficiaries. This is a complex legal process, however, and should never be relied upon as a simple escape hatch. The decision to make a trust irrevocable must be made with a clear understanding that you are building a permanent legal structure.
The right choice depends entirely on your objectives. Are you planning for a smooth transition of your primary residence to your children? A revocable trust may be sufficient. Are you a business owner seeking to protect personal assets from professional liabilities? An irrevocable trust might be a necessary component of your plan.
A prudent estate plan is not about picking a winner in a “versus” battle. It is about understanding the mechanics of each structure and deliberately choosing the one that serves your family’s long-term well-being.
The first step is not drafting a document, but clarifying your intentions. A consultation is where we define those objectives—for your family, your assets, and your legacy. Only then can we determine the proper legal structure to serve as its foundation.





