An envelope arrives from the Kings County Surrogate’s Court. Inside is a legal document—a citation—naming you as the executor of your parent’s estate. You knew this day would come, but holding the actual court papers makes the responsibility feel immense. You are now a fiduciary, legally bound to act in the estate’s best interest. For most people I meet, this is the moment they realize they cannot—and should not—do this alone.
The probate process is the court-supervised procedure for validating a will, paying the decedent’s debts, and distributing their assets. My role as a probate attorney is to represent the executor—not the beneficiaries, not the family as a whole, but the person charged with carrying out the will’s instructions. This is a critical distinction. My duty is to advise the executor on their responsibilities, help them fulfill those duties, and shield them from the personal liability that can arise from missteps.
From Petition to Letters Testamentary
The first task is getting the will admitted to probate. We prepare a probate petition, which formally asks the Surrogate’s Court to accept the will as valid and officially appoint the executor. This petition, governed by the Surrogate’s Court Procedure Act (SCPA), requires the original will, a death certificate, and a list of all interested parties—anyone who would inherit if the will were invalid.
We then ensure all necessary parties are notified, often by serving them with the citation you received. If a family member objects, they can challenge the will. Will contests can derail the entire process for months or even years; our role is to manage them. Once the court is satisfied, it issues “Letters Testamentary.” This is the official document that grants the executor the legal authority to act on behalf of the estate—to access bank accounts, sell property, and manage assets.
The Work of an Executor: Stewardship and Administration
Receiving Letters Testamentary is the beginning, not the end. The executor must then “marshal” the estate’s assets. This means locating, securing, and valuing everything the decedent owned, from a Manhattan co-op to brokerage accounts and personal property. It is an investigative process that requires diligence and precision.
At the same time, we must address the decedent’s liabilities. New York law, specifically SCPA §1802, outlines the process for creditors to file claims against an estate. We help the executor validate these claims, negotiate with creditors, and pay legitimate debts from estate funds. This must be done before any money is distributed to beneficiaries. Handling this incorrectly—for instance, paying heirs before a major creditor like the IRS or a hospital—can make an executor personally liable for the unpaid debt. My firm’s job is to create an orderly process that follows the law and protects the executor from such costly errors.
Family Dynamics and Final Distribution
An estate is more than a collection of assets; it’s the final chapter of a person’s legacy. That legacy can become strained when family members disagree. A probate attorney often serves as a buffer and objective third party. We communicate with beneficiaries, answer their questions, and manage their expectations, freeing the executor from having to field every emotional phone call.
When disputes arise over the interpretation of a will or the disposition of a particular asset, we work to find a resolution. The goal is always to honor the decedent’s intent while minimizing conflict. After all debts are paid and assets are accounted for, we prepare a final accounting for the court and the beneficiaries. This document shows every dollar that came in and every dollar that went out. Upon its approval, we guide the executor through the final distributions, closing the estate and fulfilling their duty. Stewardship.
If you have been named an executor and are unsure of your next steps, the most prudent action is to understand your legal and fiduciary obligations. We regularly provide initial consultations for newly appointed executors to review the will and outline the path through Surrogate’s Court.



