A client’s father passes away in his Brooklyn brownstone. He was organized—he left a properly signed and witnessed will in his desk drawer. The family believes this document is the final word, allowing them to distribute his assets as instructed. They are often surprised to learn that the will is not a magic key. It is, instead, a nomination—a set of instructions that must first be approved by a judge in Surrogate’s Court. This court-supervised process is known as probate.
For decades, I have guided families through this process. The anxiety it often causes comes from misunderstanding what probate is for. It is not a punishment for poor planning. It is a public, transparent procedure designed to do three things: validate the will, pay the decedent’s legitimate debts, and ensure the remaining assets are transferred to the correct beneficiaries. It is the court’s way of providing a final, legal closing to a person’s financial life.
The Executor’s Journey Begins with a Petition
The person named in the will to carry out its instructions is the executor—or more accurately, the nominated executor. Their authority is not automatic. The first step is to petition the Surrogate’s Court in the county where the decedent lived to formally appoint them. This petition package includes the original will, a certified copy of the death certificate, and a list of all legal heirs, known as distributees.
Why must the heirs be notified, even if they are not named in the will? Because they have a legal right to question the will’s validity. This is a crucial safeguard. Under Surrogate’s Court Procedure Act (SCPA) §1404, distributees are entitled to conduct examinations of the witnesses to the will and the person who drafted it before deciding whether to file a formal objection. This is one of the first potential hurdles. If an heir believes the will was the product of undue influence, fraud, or that the decedent lacked the mental capacity to sign it, they can initiate a will contest.
Once the court is satisfied that the will is valid and there are no meritorious objections, it issues “Letters Testamentary.” This is the official court document that grants the executor the legal authority to act on behalf of the estate. Without it, banks, brokerage firms, and other institutions will not grant access to the decedent’s accounts.
Stewardship, Not Ownership
Receiving Letters Testamentary marks the beginning of the executor’s real work. It is a role of profound responsibility—a fiduciary duty to act in the best interests of the estate and its beneficiaries. The executor does not own the assets; they are a temporary steward, tasked with a clear set of duties.
The primary responsibilities include:
- Marshalling Assets: The executor must identify, locate, and take control of all property belonging to the decedent. This can be as simple as consolidating bank accounts and as complex as managing a business, selling real estate, or appraising a collection of fine art.
- Paying Debts and Expenses: Before any beneficiary receives a dollar, the estate must settle the decedent’s final affairs. This includes paying valid creditor claims, filing final income tax returns, and paying any estate taxes that may be due. This is a deliberate and methodical process.
- Accounting and Distribution: Once all assets are collected and all debts are paid, the executor must provide an accounting to the beneficiaries showing all the activity in the estate. Upon approval, they can finally distribute the remaining assets according to the terms of the will.
This process is not quick. Creditors have seven months from the date the executor is appointed to file a claim against the estate. For this reason alone, a straightforward probate in New York often takes nine months to a year, and sometimes longer if assets are complex or disputes arise.
Intentional Planning Can Change the Experience
While probate is the default path for assets passed through a will, not all assets must go through it. Prudent estate planning is about being intentional with how your legacy is transferred. Assets can be structured to pass outside of probate, avoiding the direct supervision of Surrogate’s Court.
These non-probate transfers typically involve:
- Revocable Living Trusts: Assets titled in the name of a trust are controlled by a trustee and are not part of the probate estate. This is the most common and effective tool for avoiding probate.
- Beneficiary Designations: Life insurance policies, retirement accounts like IRAs and 401(k)s, and certain bank accounts can pass directly to a named beneficiary.
- Jointly Owned Property: Real estate or bank accounts owned jointly with rights of survivorship pass automatically to the surviving owner.
The goal is not always to avoid probate entirely. Sometimes, the court’s supervision can be beneficial, especially if family dynamics are strained. The objective is to create a deliberate plan that reflects your wishes and protects your family’s future. It is about ensuring the transition of your life’s work is as seamless and private as you want it to be. Stewardship.
If you have been named as an executor in a will, the first step is to understand the document and the legal duties it imposes. Our firm provides a preliminary review of a decedent’s will to clarify for a nominated fiduciary the responsibilities and the process in Surrogate’s Court.



